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Join Date: 06 May 2010
Location:  United StatesPosts: 53 |
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4 Steps That Will Teach You How To Get Your Ex Back |
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Did you just go through a nasty break up? Do you keep asking yourself how to get your ex back? Just about every adult has went through some type of break up. Most explore the possibility of just moving on with their life verses doing things to try to get their ex back. However if you get tired of playing the victim role and want to be proactive at getting back your ex, there are some things you can do. Breaking up is part of the relationship game, but it doesn't mean that there isn't a chance to reconcile.
Identify What Went Wrong In almost all cases there are ways you can get your ex back, but you have to know the proper steps required to do this. First of all, you need to relect on what happened that caused the both of you to split up in the first place. It's impossible to change anything that happened before. But you can educate yourself on your past mistakes so you don't make the same mistakes in the future. Change Your Behaviors There could have been just one catastrophic event that caused this break up, or you may have a pattern of behavior that your ex finds repulsive and just can't live with. Whatever the reason is, it's important to reflect on specific instances that might have led up to this, so when they come up again you'll know how to handle them better. In most cases it is possible to get your ex back, however, you need to know what went wrong so you don't keep repeating these same behaviors that led to the breakup. Don't Come Off Desparate Another important thing to remember is to not come off as a desparate person. Most people have deep feelings for the ex after a break up, but if you make this obvious it could end up pushing them away even further. The key here is to remain strong, and make it known to your ex that life is great by yourself. Your chances improve ten fold for reuniting with your ex if you let those around you know you're adjusting fine without them. Show Them You're Strong If you try to get revenge on your ex or try to make them jealous, you are just digging a deeper hole for yourself. As a matter of fact, these are the worst behaviors you can engage in. This might give them a clear message that they need to move on and not focus on you at all. The key here is to let you're ex know you're doing well, but you don't want to over do it to the point where they don't feel comfortable getting back together with you again. If you let them know how confident and strong you are, they will be attracted by this strength and will want to be with you again. |
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Join Date: 06 May 2010
Location: United StatesPosts: 53 |
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RE: 4 Steps That Will Teach You How To Get Your Ex Back |
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Try This Technique To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back
Now that your girlfriend has left you, all you can think about is how much you really loved her. When the two of you were together, you may have just taken for granted your feelings but now that she is no longer around you are realizing the truth about how you feel about her. Now you are thinking about how you can get her to come back to you. You must have made some mistake in your relationship to cause her to leave you. We all make mistakes in our relationships so don't feel alone. You can't go back in time and fix it but you can change so you do not make the same mistakes again. You will have to make a conscious effort to do this and it may not be easy. If you truly want to get your ex back, one of your first steps will be to apologize to her. Your apology must be sincere, not some generic 'I'm sorry' or it won't be very convincing. Explain to your ex that you understand why she left and you know you are to blame, and have some way to prove to her that you are making an effort to change. For example, if you saw a relationship counselor to help you understand why things went bad, this would be a great way to show her you have truly been trying to fix things. It could take awhile to get her back with you, but during that time you can continually show her that you mean to do better. When she has something to say about the previous relationship, let her express her feelings, do not argue back with her. You want to give her a chance to talk about what she has been thinking so she can move on and hopefully reunite with you. |
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